Tunde Thomas Died After Wife Confessed That Her FCMB Boss Is The Father Of Their Kids.
Nigerians have this argumentative body disposition each time they are told about their recklessness sex lifestyle, the results and the societal effect.
Nigeria has the 2nd highest rate of paternity fraud in the world after Jamaica. Many men have been unknowingly raising children that are not theirs and to curb the trend, there have been calls for the introduction of mandatory DNA testing at birth.
A DNA expert from Lagos universe teaching Hospital claimed that 30% of the Nigerian men who went to paternity testing centres (paternity testing laboratories) were not the biological fathers of their presumed children.
The significant causes of paternity fraud in Nigeria had been attributed to Culture and system of getting married, “infidelity, adultery and increase in sexual recklessness among Nigerian couples” together with “poor family planning”. Mix-ups in maternity hospitals are an additional factor in failed paternity tests: in these cases, maternity test will fail too, In a society like Nigeria that tries marriage security and individual completeness in having children will always experience fraud in paternity.
Because people mainly women will do anything to secure their place in their matrimonial home and men accept anything to be accepted by their kinsmen, who uses child bearing as a yardstick for achievement by the society.
Just like many other men,Tunde Thomas (alias Tunde Gentle), 45, died about two weeks ago from heartbreak when he discovered that The two kids from his marriage were fathered by the current MD of FCMB, Adam Nuru who was his wife’s boss, Tunde’s wife, Moyo Thomas (Nee Ojo), was reportedly engaged in an office romance with her MD, a relationship that was well known to all in the Fcmb bank.
Happily married Billionaire Nuru, while he got carried away in fornicating with Moyo, spared no thought for Tunde who was bringing up the two children he thought belonged to him.
Those in the know say Tunde was so in love with and attached to his wife and children that he spent most of his resources on them. He took them to London and Dubai on holidays. He also spared no penny in putting the kids in the best schools.
At the height of the shameful relationship and when the older child was about eight (8) years old, Moyo suddenly resigned from FCMB and travelled to the US with the two children, ostensibly on holiday. It was when the school session started in Nigeria and the children were not returned that Tunde started asking questions and the lady finally summoned the shameless courage to tell him the children were not his own.
She then went to the extent of filing for asylum in the US on the ground of marital violence in Nigeria, against a man known to all men by his gentle and easygoing disposition.
Her aim, we learnt, was to get the Green Card and also get Tunde barred from entering the US, so she would not be able to look him in the eye and tell him the bitter truth.
Not long after receiving the sad news first in 2017, Tunde reportedly suffered a stroke. He recovered from the stroke but said to have become a shadow of his former self, as he would often cry without reason.