A Nigerian lady has narrated the story of how she sacrificed her ambition for her boyfriend but the man ended up leaving her in the cold According to Amanda Chisom,
she got a scholarship to pursue a degree abroad but had to abandon the offer because she wanted to stay with her boyfriend in Nigeria who demanded for her loyalty,
Amanda says if she ever got the chance again, she will not repeat the mistake, because the man has since married another woman .
In 2013, Amanda Chisom got a generous offer to study abroad, but she missed it. It was deliberate though because she reasoned that it would be good to stay back in Nigeria with her then-boyfriend.
The admission and scholarship Amanda got would have enabled her to study at the University of Reading, United Kingdom. But she said she chose her man over the big offer.
In a comment on the post, Blessing Matthew Uwazie narrated her own experience:
“Amanda Chisom I understand you in fanarratect some man na hell fire straight be them portion ooo.
That’s how my own ex broke up with me on the very day my mother was being buried, he started misbehaving from the very day I was travelling to the village he didn’t call me. I had to be the one calling him from burial ground.
Only for this guy to get mind call me that very morning when them wan bury my mom to tell me is over between us.
another lady said her boyfriend has asked her to forget about their relationship if she travels abroad to pursue a scholarship offered to her. She said the man has promised to marry her, but that he has asked her to choose between the scholarship and him.