Why are men dying earlier than women? outside the war, the sickness that one can not avoid, duo time of life, only by lifestyle.
My question is, do they, men really die earlier or more than our women? our case study on Africa /third world countries, Nigeria to be precise.
A story for the market day,
Back to our topic. Men dying earlier, because of the way is making headlines recently, on our ( social media) today, this write up, like our blog, we don’t blog what everyone is blogging about, is not pride, we try to create our own news, and we don’t recycle, but to make some correction or draw attention for what many people have been absorbing lately to make some important issues known,
what we as people have forgotten to look at that is very critical,
Reasons many people gave why men die earlier than their wife/women is because they are the breadwinners,(main earners of the families)winning of the bread, that they, the men hahaha, win it more, a story, like seriously! the equation has change hand, ok if you don’t know, know it now.
Study conducted has proved that in Nigeria alone, presently 55% women today are the listen breadwinners ( they are family more earners, but that result has been killed so it won’t be known, still men’s world society we live in ) am not disputing the fact that over expectation from men who are not emotionally stable in a way don’t affect them physically ,but women, still pay house rent, feed, train, all manner of bills, even bride price self, doubt me now and still deal with the emotional torture their men put them through thank God to almighty culture, to them and give birth( who can compare birth pains, can you match that with any kind of pains in the world, someone just ask, have you given birth, how do you know, oh I know because am a women and a truthful human) so if there are people who should be dying because of the listed things they have been parading about as the root cause of why men die more, in Africa/Nigeria of why our men are dying, I said, is suppose to be the women not men, but those write up made us know that they are not dying because of those reasons they give, And you know it, Ego will not allow them to own up to the truth.
African men always like living in denials, that is their life, nature, they don’t like facing the truth, why will they not asked themselves major and critical questions and be truthful to answer it, but they always like claiming what they are not still one reason for their problems, (ndi ara) sorry oh my uncles them, papa them, sweetheart m them, please pardon my manners hahahahah.
Rather they keep pushing blames, and looking for who to hang it on his or her neck
Even the time of our forebears, women have always been the pillar of our homes ( major bread winners) because if you bring money and cannot put it in properly use, what have you done? nothing!
Still, the same women will put the money into use. You as a reader, Examine and find out the work of a real pillar and when the pillar is bad, what happens, the house collapsed.
Then, with our forebears, Our fathers they own the farmland, they only make bridges which most women do as well, on it, off they go to sit with their kinsmen/friends or at the bear parlous to talk on what you and I alone know about. don’t tell them I said so, please.
The weeding, planting and harvesting are all women’s work, the real farm work and who actually do the major work on that farmland are our mothers and their children, one major reason they, the men, marry them many, wife’s then, not for what you and I call love today, but to have enough people for their work, farm is one of their reasons,
Before I proceed I will like to crave our indulgence on sex and life, I might not go too deep into this because am not a doctor, but am telling you is a pure truth,
Each time you releases a sperm/ejaculate for a man or you reaches orgasm for women, something goes out of you, a life leaves you, enough of that for now!
And because most of our men indulge in this sexual activity out of wanting not needing it takes the greater part of their life away, it reduces their lifespan.
If you doubt me, Examine your self on when you make love and when you have sex, you know the difference and the impact it has on you and your health.
REASONS MEN MIGHT BE DYING EARLIER IS AS FOLLOW
1, Now in my society our men have this attitude of having 10 to 20 sex partners at the same time, and they make brave of it as if there is an award attached to it.
Apart from some women who have taken it upon themselves as job, prostitution, please know it today that when I said prostitute, we still have a good number of them who don’t stand on the road, they live with their parents and from good homes/have good jobs, they are still a prostitute like you know, we have classics of them out there.
It is not only those who stand on the road, ask some of those women, if most of those men can pay them without touching them they will be happy, some of this men go on hard drugs to boost their manpower, libido, each time you take such drugs, it reduces your lifespan, if you don’t know, know it now. which destroys their arthritic its unknown to them, in a bit to perform, to satisfy the women to prove to them that they are the real men, (real men indeed) have you not heard stories of so many man dying on top of their / other women, funny enough all the people they die on top is their concubines/ mistresses, not even their wife’s, our men are so selfish that they want to satisfy their mistress but will not go miles to satisfy their wife’s, for them their wives are only for childbearing, baby making machines what a pity for the women.
With a mindset of destroying others then, the women who have a way of letting out the stress without them knowing outlives them.
That is one major reason our men are dying more than the women, multiple sex partners. the men live with mindset that men love sex, to them sex is food and they lack self-control and discipline not that some women don’t, but most women indulge in sex for what they feel or to show off or make money not for what they want, majority of women will not sleep with people they slept with if they have their way ask questions.
2, Harmful cultural practices, in Africa/Nigeria. is a taboo to see a man cry, no matter the pains, don’t cry endure it as a man as if they are not humans, which kills their men gradually.
Majority of their men don’t marry for love,(even some who marry with love, the almighty advice of don’t open up to your wife or she will not respect you) so many men bottle a lot of things, from home (father/mother/siblings) even their friends expect them to be strong like a men, giving them advice like,
To pick women(sex), drink while the emotions are still boiling, what drinks and sex does to such emotions is to suspend it, it has not taken care of it, no one to talk to, in most cases they are been shut down, then they withdraw to themselves, what makes a normal human is to empty their mind either through talking, crying etc and become free and fresh to live again, most men don’t get that chance and opportunity, no one is ready to listen to them as if they are power man( making them robot) which kills them emotionally, their pains keep accumulating until it gets to the point of
an explosion, it explodes and what happens, heart attacks etc and stress which gives birth to many sicknesses,
unlike their women who let it out by crying and talking to people around them freely( they tag them gossip) and because this men, they don’t marry for love, sharing their life issues,problems freely with their partners ( wife) is not a common thing with them, mind you, you can only be free with whom you feel free or feel secured with our beasties then love , for them, many are married but still live a life of loneliness, they live with their enemies in most cases, it kills too.
Most time, I feel for them because of what they go through in life (THE MEN), funny enough they still form the strong one even most of their women too they don’t marry for love too longer throat, but immediately they start having children they switch over emotions, they try to find what they miss in their husband in their children or people around them, to them, their man is not recognized, even being around them, they are just figurehead, they don’t notice them, you see them radiate from inside, more reason they accuse them of infidelity, sorry most of them, the women, don’t, they don’t, I mean the women, just that they have made an emotional decision to redirect their attention, because they cry, they are emotionally stronger than men, but the men claim to be stronger than them, funny! you can only get the best out of sex when is love making not when is fucking sorry for my use of language, you fuck with strength and make love with your heart.
For man! They live a life of insecurity, many of them, end up lonely even till their old age, even with many children at their disposal, trust the women they win the children to themselves, hey!
Hold it there, is not the women’s fault, when the culture is against them, the women, so God uses the children to console them, they automatically bound with their children, you and I know, when there’s bound, no one can break it, they find love they lack from their husband in their children/friends and family members remember women are taking being.
For men, when you have many women around you and your wife/women is not complaining, sorry dear, she has made a conclusion, she has shifted ground emotionally, women who have the attitude of crying, they cry, cry out loud, or don’t you know that crying rejuvenate one, oh it does!
Women, they can easily be confirmed in people around them to talk to, a way to free themselves, one attribute men don’t have, even when, men they try to, they lose it, by this multiple partners, those partners will lose interest and confidence in them because they know they are many of them begging for your attention.
They say a cow that belongs to the public dies for hunger, so be wise.
clubbing is good, drinking is good, exercise is good but mind you eating good and balanced diet is equally good,
Most Man, denial themselves a lot of sleep,( there, their men don’t grow until in their late 50’s why a 30years old woman there is already an old woman), no good exercise, they drink a lot, and many don’t even know how to cook not just cooking, good food, still at the mercy of those women who they are not well loved to feed them properly hmmmmmmmm to balance what is missing hmmmmm where is my pen ? who took my pen now ooooo oh my God I need a new pen can you bye one for me, pls do now.
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