WHO DID THIS TO HIM, feelingsTO HER, DON’T JUST SAY, IS NOT ME, IF IS NOT YOU, WHO THEN?
Large number of people in the third world country are emotionally traumatized, reason being that, with everyday experience presenting itself to them has left them feeling helpless, alone, lonely and threaten, insecurity is a major issue they battle with, feeling that many who don’t even notice them are after them, the more feeling this they nurse, the more traumatized they become in nature, feeling isolated in a large society filled with people who claim to be socially knitted together , funny world..
Majority of us live on today, for us, future belongs to God, wow
Now I asked, was that one of the reasons people in my society don’t work on long time projects, majority of us live with now, now mentality, everyone is after what he or she will make out of life now, posterity is for our ancestors , just thinking aloud! (4give me PLS)
Even in our own country, our own world, a closer look at us, we feel like strangers, what stirs at our face, even due we try to wear the makeup of laughter, pretense,that all is well, even when we are dying, day and night is fear, to us, anything can happen at any time, any day, funny about this phrase of anything assumption, is that, is not from God (our creator) is actually a man-made! phenomenon.
Each day I walk down the stress of our mega city, Lagos to be precise, I stir at people’s faces, all i see is anger, pain, frustration and anxiety, then I keep wondering, why would people that has been once proclaim the happiest people on earth, live with this kind of anger underneath their souls, in them, I quickly pull out my small mirror from my hand bag, it was was a red bag, (i love red hahaha), and view my face, please don’t laugh, because we are all same, brothers and sisters, is possible I could have such threat without knowing it, please help me out. is it there?
Through serials of interviews, questioning and findings, I came to conclusion that many of us, have experienced an extremely stressful, disappointing or disturbing event that has left us feeling helpless, alone and emotionally out of control, many are emotionally traumatized without even knowing it. You will agree with me that such Psychological trauma can leave you struggling with upsetting emotions, memories, and anxiety that won’t go away easily all your life.
It can also leave you feeling numb, disconnected, and unable to trust other people. No wonder trust is a thing of the past in my society, no one trust each other.
When bad things happen, it can take a while to get over the pain and feel safe again. many people in my society are living on bottled emotions, unresolved emotions which is eating them up gradually, they unintentionally meant it out to one another without knowing it on daily basis, through, anger, pains, etc it actually hurt me so much because this pains are all man-made.
when can we re-learn this phenomenon ?