LIFE REVOLVES ON VALUES AND PERSONALITY?, WHAT IS YOUR VALUES AND WHAT PERSONALITY DO YOU EXHIBIT AS A PERSON.
values are the fundamental beliefs of a person. These guiding principles dictate behaviour and can help One understand the difference between right and wrong. Core values also help individuals to determine if they are on the right path and fulfilling their goals by creating an unwavering guide.
Because of inbuilt values, there are things some people cannot do irrespective of their situation or condition, they find themselves in life, they prefer to find a way around it, it does not make them better than people who do them but that is their values and has been formed.
Core Values About Life
Often, when you hear someone discuss why they fell in love with their other half, they will mention that they have the same values. In this case, they are often talking about core values or internal beliefs that dictate how life should be lived,
Personality can be defined as an organized set of characteristics possessed by a person that determine one’s persona.
No matter how economists and politicians dissect things the power in our society can be reduced to two elements, GOD AND MONEY.
God and Money are the major forces in our world today, even Jesus warned that we would serve one or the other, no one can serve two masters at a time, even in love-affairs, no matter what you feel, or the butterfly in your stomach, you can only truly love one person at a time, mind you family love is quite different from opposite-sex love, you can love all your family members at a time but you still agree with me that there’s that family member that get away with everything they do to us, have you ask yourself why?
Back to our discus, “God or Money”, the one you love most will have a significant impact/infect in your life and the release of your potentials, because the basic power in our life determines what motivate us,
if money motivates you, Greed will control you. you will want to get it, by all means, irrespective of the course, life or death.
If God motivates/empowers you, his love and his purpose for your life will control you. all you will do will be too pleasing him.
THE SCRIPTURE SAID THAT God will meet the needs of those who give their first allegiance to him.
This is true because the love of money promote corrupt morals and perverted values, so many people values have been perverted today in our society) some due to weak “WILL POWER” or low on character strength.
The need to accumulate more and more material wealth overshadows God concern of truth and honesty in our life, until deception and dishonestly determines what we do and how we do them.
You are your value and your personality.
eg. Some with good values might be forced into Armed robbery, prostitution, sleeping with married women and men, being sadist, extorting from people, doing drugs etc by environmental influence because they lack the strength of character and strong will power. you know them by the remorse they exhibit when confronted and ready to change or stop.
But some don’t care and don’t see anything wrong in doing those things, for them is not wrong, is their values, they own no apology for their action.
what is your value today? unfortunately is a natural thing we formed as we grow, associate and interact, is not what one can learn overnight unless God transforms you.
people get along better, easily with people who share the same values with them.
Do you know what your values are? Do they align with that of your significant other at least to a reasonable extent?
Values are principles or standards of behaviour; a person’s judgement of what is important in life.
Values reflect your sense of right and wrong and determine the way you evaluate actions, people, things or situations.
Everyone has values. And, every action you take, consciously or subconsciously validates your values.
For singles, yet to get in, it is important you outline your core values before someone comes along. This will inform your decision on the choice of a partner. And when someone comes along, it’s your job to find out his/her values and beliefs.
They may not tell you outrightly but if you listen to their words (including what they are not saying in between lines, what they are saying) and you watch their actions, you will surely have a clue.
This would save you a lot of heartache and troubles if their core values are not aligned with yours.
So for example, if one of your core values, work, capacity development or faithfulness and the other person believes in luck, galavanting, there is nothing wrong with sleeping around, after all, you cannot eat only egusi soup for the rest of your life. Sister/brother is a big problem, think twice.
If one of your core values is integrity, and the other party thinks it’s okay to use any means including illegal means to accomplish a goal because the end justifies the means, you don’t need a soothsayer to tell you that you will have issues in that your relationship. because you are coming from a different end likewise her or him.
Knowing our values and that of others around us is important.
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