THE TRUTH IS THAT EVERYONE OF US PLAYS PART IN IT, GOSSIP….
Gossip is a conversation about personal details of other people’s life or matters especially when malicious or what I call telling stories of people’s lives, spreading unconfirmed rumours, circulating things about people with different motives without confirmation. As long as you are a human being, you take part in this, so don’t be quick in concluding that you are not part of this gossip thing, everyone gossip, but the way we do it is what matters.
The motive, I suggest you ask the Gossip him/her should know better hahaha.
Most times this motives could be malicious, destructive, depressing and to kill or to inform. Do you know that many of us have killed many souls, hindered many people, limited many and frustrated a lot of people just because of what we say, saying, circulating and assuming?
I always remember my mummy saying then, that the easiest way to kill someone is with our mouth, we laugh then as children, but now I know better.
Who then Gossips, and who do not Gossip, it might surprise you to know that every one of us gossip, yes, I said it, and will say it again, I said so! everyone is a gossip but the level or class of our gossip differs by the quality of people around us. okwu!
look at him/her nodding head, I don’t Gossip, lies, you do gossip. Beady said so and I mean it, jokes apart.
Just that the rate at which each and every one of us gossip or what makes you a gossip and me, not a gossip differ, always remember that the person who gossips about other people to you, will surely gossip about you to other people, so be careful, one bad habit of this gossip driven people is that they want to know everything about people, not even reasonable things to help humanity, so be careful and watchful.
Our class of gossip, the issues at which we gossip on differs, very well, lovely couples are the worst or best gossips partners on earth but not you or I can hold them accountable for that act, is their world, they are free to rock it. Gossip is not for man or woman, everyone gossips. we can’t pick a particular sex that gossip more than other, gossip differs by people, it depends on their personality threat.
Even the speech impaired people, I have some in my area and I enjoy them each time they sight their gossip partner and their action, It honestly makes my day fulfilling, mostly their reactions, oh my God, if you understand it, is enough fun than paying for comedy show
But the truth is that most people actually become gossips or have grown to be known as gossips or what we call rumour carries. This is because of their nature. Some have failed to recognise some threats in humans, some are quick to a conclusion, some are not watchful or sensitive.
Now let me let you know how you, me and every other person’s gossip,
To gossip depends on the character quality of people you discuss with, you talk to, you fraternise with, then I asked, must you talk with everyone ( JUST ASKING)
You will agree with me, that as individuals, there are people we feel at home with, comfortable talking to, discussing with ( some say, they have or watch our back) funny word.
The strength of the character of people/persons you talk to, will make you a gossip or not a gossip, yesss! that is just it, that your friends protect you and other people friends are not able to protect them, don’t make it look like they are the only people that talk (GOSSIP).
Secondly, if the person you are talking to is mentally free (have all the time doing nothing ( ( IDLE ), the possibility of you becoming a gossip is very high, but if the people you are talking to is mentally engaging, you are then far from becoming a gossip, the reason being that mentally engage people, have what they are looking for, not that they don’t talk they have friends mind you, they do, but with selected few, and on a targeted things, mainly ideas but mentally free people always are available looking for one person or the other to talk about, their discussion centers on people, so the ability of spreading rumors and making you a gossip, who feels, you are speaking to a friend is there.
If you are used to talking to flippant people, the possibility of you becoming a gossip is very high, if you are talking to a braggart you are sure will become one soon or tricky people.
A friend told me is like talking to a sanguine. But I have a sanguine friend who knows her fault (weakness) and has worked on it, so she chose people she talks to, mostly she goes as far as to confirm any news she hears, to avoid it being a gossip because is in their nature to talk and most of them can not trace their talk.
You, can you trace your talk, if you hear what you said somewhere else at a stand, will you remember where is coming from, who might have said it there or are you the type who talks anyhow and everywhere. (REMEMBER YOU GOSSIP)
Gossip is when Mr A discuss with Mr B and Mr B will go and tell Mr C. what Mr A said who tells Mr D then Mr D will now call the attention of Mr A, who in confident tells Mr B something, apparently Mr A is now a gossip to Mr D and Mr B is a gossip to Mr A and their intenIion I don’t know. asked, they please.
Now four people are involved on what a friend secretly confirmed on a friend. spreading rumours or dissing people, it hurts. then the trust will be lost.
What makes us a better being is being able to keep our discussion within whom we discuss it with, don`t always take one person issues to another person, that is actually how to me, we have succeeded in spreading gossip in our society and is affecting lives and families negatively, learn to keep discussion where you get it, whatever thing you discuss with someone should remain with that person, if you get to another person and lack words, start signing.
you discuss another person issues with another, that brings gossip more especially when you are not sure of strength of their character, the person you are discussing with, can him or her leave it where you guys discuss it or the person will start spreading it, then you and the person will surely become part of the gossip
WHAT MAKES YOU A REAL PERSON IS BEING ABLE TO KEEP SECRET, GUILD YOUR MOUTH, IT IS NOT EVERYTHING YOU SEE OR HEAR YOU MUST TALK ABOUT, IT COULD LEAD YOU INTO TROUBLE OR OTHERS INTO TROUBLE.THE WORLD IS IN TROUBLE TODAY IS BECAUSE OF OUR MOUTH our inability of keeping secret.
You can not be in charge of your life when you can not control what you say or the people you talk to, chose people you talk to and spear your life and others life.
Please stand up today and take charge, is your life! Mind you talking for change and gossip is totally two different things.
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