MARRIAGE IS NOT IMPORTANT
In life, One of the most important choice you will need to make is who to marry, Yes.
This choice is so important that if you miss it, you will suffer for long, if you get it right, then, you will enjoy forever, so therefore, marry right or be single, that’s the only way to be happy in life in this stressful life of us, because marriage itself is not easy, so with right partner, you get it a bit closer rightfully. .
A bad marriage can affect every other area of your life, Finance, Career, family, children, health, relationship, spiritual life, outlook, attitude etc. This subject is so important to the extent that so many married people are hoping to be single again, so as to be able to make the right choice all over again. It has gotten to the point that most couples are now praying for their partners to die, which is wrong, instead of praying for one to die, please, gently walk away.
(Is not a do or die affair) like Naija politic!
If you are single please don’t just be in a hurry to get married, because you still have the best opportunity to prepare for it, no time is late by God, all marriage must not have their own biological children.
For two people to come together to live in peace and harmony, they must agree spiritually, mentally, physically and emotionally.
Just like an Elephant cannot marry an Ant, a believer cannot marry a non-believer. There must be one or two things you both must believe in.
If an Elephant marries an Ant, how would they live? If a goat marries a fish where would they meet?
You must look for a sincere and righteous man or a sincere and righteous woman to marry, nothing can beat this. Sincere/righteous is not by going to church/mosque or by readings and quoting all the verses in the Bible/Quran.
The devil’s primary target is the family. He knows that everyone belongs to a family and if he can bring two wrong people together in marriage, then he will succeed in breaking the community ties and the nation down as a whole and this is part of what we’re witnessing all over the world presently. So be a change of a new world we want.
Ignore your age and the pressure for a moment, the pressure in a wrong marriage is far worse. Do you know you can be happier as a single person than living in a hurtful marriage, it kills internally. Many have gone through that, don’t make yourself a part of it.
God has somebody for you, but you must set your priorities right. What do you need from a woman/man, What do you need in life? What where you send to do on earth. What is your purpose on earth this thing will help you a lot in making a decision?
Marriage is not about what you want, it is about who you need, that will make you better, while you make him/her better, it’s not something you just jump into. That is why you must know your purpose before getting married, it helps a lot.
You must pray before you choose, remember our inner tiny mind is that God most of us seek, let’s listen to it.[lets disregard present situation/condition and focus on destination] GOD knows the best person for you, it is only wise to seek His will, not that he will choose partner for you, but by knowing your purpose, it gives you directions of the type/kind of person you need in your life. It is very easy to know God’s will when sex is not involved and when we have an open mind.
The moment sex is involved and you want to know his will, then He will blank you off.
Why? Because you have broken His first Law of NO SEX before marriage. If you have had sex in the past, then you need to stop now, stay away from each other sexual, then you can seek forgiveness from God. Ask for redirection, Your marriage will not be hell on earth. Your marriage will be honourable
Many have gotten into wrong marriage through sex, because, sex beclouds our sense of reasoning, Don’t marry for sex, don’t marry because you are of age, don’t marry because you are getting old, don’t marry because you want children, don’t marry because you are lonely, don’t marry because you need someone to support you financially, don’t marry because you mistakenly got pregnant, don’t marry because of greedy/money, don’t marry because you don’t want to lose the person, don’t marry because of family pressures, don’t marry because of family name/wealth, don’t marry because you like the idea of marriage and admire every wedding gown/suit you have seen, don’t marry because all your friends are getting married, don’t marry because you don’t have any place to go to, there are a lot of convent or homes, ask around, don’t marry because you are getting old or reaching menopause/ you need people to take care of you in your old age, are you sure you will be alive till then, even if you are, mind you everyone must die one day, there are many children out there looking for parents to love them and homes to give them sense of belonging .People can still have good and healthy marriage without having their own biological children,
But get married because you want to fulfil what God has ordained. Marry because you people are compatible, marry because you want to be a helpmate, but most importantly, because you want to fulfil a purpose of having completed half of your purpose on earth, why you were sent on earth.
God will help you in Choosing, please let’s all continue to pray fervently to God for all we want.
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